New Years is a great time for reflection, to look back on the experiences of our past year. It’s such a quiet, deep time. In the darkness of winter, I can really take time to review our collective experiences as a local and global community. We may not realize the...

  As men, we tend to feel Love's force most strongly when we deeply open to our partners in sex. When we come into union with our partners, our hearts open.  Yes, we are more vulnerable, but there is another energy that can overshadow any fears we have about...

Sex is the most powerful force of nature; it has the potential to liberate when used consciously. Sex is natural, it is the foundation and starting point of our lives. Sex is beautiful, it creates life, it can create intimacy, it can bring ecstasy and elation. It...

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For a few days every month, an ex-girlfriend of mine suffered agonizing pain. I dreaded that time, I helplessly witnessed her moan and writhe in pain. Instead of lending a hand, I instead chose to avoid the subject altogether.

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I have acted poorly towards women at points in my life. I have objectified women, making rude comments, especially when in groups of other men. This brings up shame as well as an understanding that this is what I was taught as “normal” and…

Part of our masculine programming is stoicism; we don’t often reveal resentment, shame and self judgment. We are ashamed of the ways we acted in past relationships, and we harshly judge ourselves for not achieving the goals we think we should have. We carry...

Men tend to fall into two general camps in how they relate in relationship; one way is the more needy or attention wanting man and the other way is, the more unavailable or aloof kind of guy. Yes, I am referring to the more unhealthy qualities that we men play out. We...